Welcome back, u/Wombblast! Let's review some of your work: You'll find her when you really start your journey through life. Live out your life for yourself and not for some lanky girl. There's literally beauties like the salt flats of Boliva in this world that's worlds better than the girl who's made bad relationship choices. Maybe you're looking at the trashy girls, maybe you've experienced a rejection that was pretty terrible, maybe you've struggled to establish yourself in a society that keeps knocking you down. Trash sticks with trash is what I'm saying and if you put out a bitter persona who is demanding of a relationship, you either are going to get a nasty partner who is the exact same (which will further mess up your perception of a relationship) or stay alone due to the fact that most do not want to be demanded into a miserable relationship.Ħ) Something is making you bitter and a bitter life is a lonely one. What person doesn't want someone who is able to love them so passionately but also won't take no crap for anyone or anything and is willing to fight to protect? If not, maybe they can't escape the bad boy because he's an abusive butthole who will kill his partner if they try to leave.ĥ) Do you also realize that any potential bitterness is sensed by the people around you? It's also the reason why really desperate people don't find good partners they get scared of being alone, get desperate, that desperation pushes away any good partners and boom, you get a bad relationship. Usually bad boys are tough, i-dont-give-a-crap and passionate. That's the charm that's absolutely irresistible to me.Ĥ) Break down the psychology of the bad boys and what makes him so appealing. I personally like genuine kindness, a kindness without the strings of favors or the need to impress. Charm and charisma isn't determined by their smoothness, it's determined by who they are as a person. Some like the smooth-rose-in-mouth-rolling-rr's-flirty-mcflirtflirt or the dianty-hand-to-mouth-with-a-small-gentle-gasp and some like when they see their potential partner lovingly play with a kitten. Some gals like bad boys, some dudes like bad girls, some gals like sweet guys, some dudes like sweet girls, some gals like butts and some dudes like chests.ģ) Charisma for one person isn't always the same for another. Just like not all men like the same type of girl. Sometimes it does ease our worries, sometimes it results in confirmation bias.Ģ) Not all women like the same type of guy. That's just how we are as humans, we expect and expect hoping that it'll ease the uncertainties of the future. Some girls wait for their prince charming, some guys expect to be able to catch a damsel from falling to the ground. And itn that case, You are the problem, not females.ġ) We all have unrealistic expectations, bud. If your idea if chatting with the opposite sex is hey your hot let's fuck here is a dick pick validate me, then yeah you will never get a gf. Unless you have extreme social anxiety which is different. You literally need no more charisma than hey how are you, what are your hobbies, etc which are basic social skills that all humans as a social species should have developed by now. If you are a DnD nerd write that, if you program write that, if you wood work, volunteer, etc. Get on a fucking dating site that isn't tinder which mostly only shows the attractive profiles before the average people (maybe ok cupid) and for god sakes try to make a bio with some personality that isn't the "woman don't like me cause I am not a model" incel trope. You are not getting slave girl princess Leia in your bed unless you are as shitty as Jabba(which is a crime and will land you forever in prison, which in my opinion would be a good thing) or as handsome as Han Solo. Stop being an incel and lower your fucking standards, just like everyone else in the goddamn world. Graduate student girls tend to date grad students as well or dudes with similar schooling preparations. Because you are in the same social circles, have same interests, etc.It is rare for one of my friends/coworkers to date above or below how attractive they are. Note this is not always true, but from my female stand point, it is mostly what happens. Average girls date average guys, fat girls date fat guys, and sorority girls date fraternity guys. Look at yourself in the mirror and try to see, are you really average? If you are, the fact that you aren't getting average girls is cause you are a creep. If you are not a Calvin Klein model, don't try for Victoria Secret Models.
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